Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.
Erich Fromm, "The Art of Loving"
Why are the people left behind need to be so tough.... what can I do if I were missing you so badly? ð