Do what you have to within reason to protect your heart from getting broken. Not every person you encounter will have the same motive. Give yourself a chance to get to know someone, while allowing them to get to know you. Pay close attention to the "red flags", and don't ignore them. When a person shows you who they are believe them. If you continue to ignore the signs, you'll only end up disappointed, and broken hearted. Sometimes no matter how good of a person you may be, or how giving you may have been, it won't matter to a person who doesn't care about you, or value you. There are people out there who unfortunately only care about what they can get, and don't care how their selfish behaviour affects those who really care about them. Don't feel discouraged by their behavior. Know that karma will catch up with them eventually, as it will with you as well. You get what you put out, even if it doesn't happen right away... On the flip side, some people are just so used to getting hurt or mistreated, and lack trust in others that their insecurity causes them by habit to mistreat someone who really has their back, and cares for them, because they too, can't tell the difference. Therefore they move in a hurtful way to hurt you, before you hurt them, not realizing you would never intentionally do that... After all is said and done, don't be afraid to walk away from someone who causes you stress, heartache, and uses you. There's a world full of people who aren't scared, or selfish, willing to treat you the way you deserve. As they say, when one door closes, another one opens!
Anyone ever wondered why there is so many #deadbeatdaddys because when us men don't allow the #women to dictate our lives we become the bad guy. We are so horrible until you get money in your pocket than we are your #bestfriend I've been called so many things this whole year because I chose to be #happy I chose to let go of a #toxicmarriage I gave it a year to work but I got tired of always being the only one to put the effort into it. It's called #respect#commitment#loyalty you can't get the man you want when you are causing #adultery. I've been accused of abuse, rape, being a dead beat the list goes on. I'm so happy to finally get the ball rolling with court. And it's all been shut down by a judge. There's two sides to every story. I can't wait for my daughter to be home more often. I understand not everyone approves of me being happy but #hypocrites are the ones who make the most noise. You don't like my #girlfriend but it's okay no one including #attorneys and #judges like your #sexoffender and constant change of #men lol. God doesn't like ugly. #Karma I guess she's been my best friend lately. Ty to the anonymous man for the lengthy pdf file of texts and pictures. 😎😂 standing my ground as always.
a pesar de todos mis errores has estado hay conmigo apoyandome y aunque no lo creas eres mi motor la fuerza que me empuja ha continuar cada dia, por eso quiero que nunca olvides lo importante que eres en mi vida y lo valioso para mi corazon pero siempre recuerda algo amor mio te amooooooooo demasiadoooooooooo mi cielo hermosoooooo @damarisbabilonia#girlfriend#love#happy#iloveyou